The holiday season is full of family and friends, good cheer and good times. However, for some, it can be a time of angst and frustration. Going to all the holiday parties can be quite overwhelming for those who are managing their weight. Here are a couple of things you can do to make the holiday gathers less stressful…

Don’t eat before you go to a party. Oftentimes, people will eat so they are not hungry thinking this will help them not eat at the party. Unfortunately, they will still eat at the party and have just consumed twice as many calories than they intended. If you are absolutely hungry before you leave for the party eat a piece of fruit or a serving of fresh veggies instead. This way you won’t feel you need to eat the entire buffet but you haven’t added too many calories before you even start.

Carry your conversation away from the buffet table. Staying within an arms reach of the food can often be tempting and before you know you have consumed half the fruitcake. By standing away from the table you won’t be tempted to mindlessly reach for food. Also, this gives you the opportunity to take a couple extra steps when the cookies catch your eye.

Use a smaller plate. This way, you can put less on your plate and when you feel the need to “clean your plate” you have automatically cut down on calories and fat. The key is to not overload the plate. If you have an urge for seconds, use a small plate again and try to keep space between your items.

Bring a dish to pass. This is your opportunity to guarantee at least one healthy dish is available. Be advised — you may want to make double the recipe. While many people may bring standard calorie loving dishes, when the healthy one arrives it is usually the first to go!!

Don’t forget your exercise!! Getting your walk out of the way first thing in the morning will put you on the right path to a healthy day. And if you really want that piece of homemade peanut butter fudge, you won’t have to feel guilty about it. Or, suggest a friendly snowball fight after dinner. Your turn to get the trophy from last year while burning away the calories from the cheesy potatoes!